[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.1cdc.sk\/hry-s-rozumom-a-citmi\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.1cdc.sk\/hry-s-rozumom-a-citmi\/","headline":"Hry s rozumom a citmi","name":"Hry s rozumom a citmi","description":"Ve\u013ea \u013eud\u00ed hr\u00e1 z \u010dasu na \u010das s druh\u00fdmi tak\u00e9 „hry“, ktor\u00e9 ch\u00e1peme ako manipul\u00e1ciu. \u010ci u\u017e m\u00e1m na mysli pr\u00edpad, kedy skupinky zlodejov klam\u00fa a okr\u00e1daj\u00fa na\u0161u spolo\u010dnos\u0165, alebo m\u00e1m na mysli vz\u0165ah jedn\u00e9ho \u010dloveka k druh\u00e9mu. \u010co sa t\u00fdka prv\u00e9ho pr\u00edpadu, ten m\u00f4\u017eeme zmeni\u0165 len t\u00fdm, \u017ee budeme pou\u017e\u00edva\u0165 vlastn\u00fa hlavu, do ni\u010doho nepovinn\u00e9ho sa rad\u0161ej p\u00fa\u0161\u0165a\u0165 nebudeme, […]","datePublished":"2017-09-15","dateModified":"2017-09-15","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.1cdc.sk\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.1cdc.sk\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/aa13f0f1a5b61a2deba1492ce3bb4afe8e77d91eeb44c23db0ee08765a93abad?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/aa13f0f1a5b61a2deba1492ce3bb4afe8e77d91eeb44c23db0ee08765a93abad?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"1cdc.sk","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.1cdc.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a283186_w2012_t1510755956.png","url":"https:\/\/www.1cdc.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a283186_w2012_t1510755956.png","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.1cdc.sk\/hry-s-rozumom-a-citmi\/","wordCount":430,"articleBody":" Ve\u013ea \u013eud\u00ed hr\u00e1 z \u010dasu na \u010das s druh\u00fdmi tak\u00e9 „hry“, ktor\u00e9 ch\u00e1peme ako manipul\u00e1ciu. \u010ci u\u017e m\u00e1m na mysli pr\u00edpad, kedy skupinky zlodejov klam\u00fa a okr\u00e1daj\u00fa na\u0161u spolo\u010dnos\u0165, alebo m\u00e1m na mysli vz\u0165ah jedn\u00e9ho \u010dloveka k druh\u00e9mu. \u010co sa t\u00fdka prv\u00e9ho pr\u00edpadu, ten m\u00f4\u017eeme zmeni\u0165 len t\u00fdm, \u017ee budeme pou\u017e\u00edva\u0165 vlastn\u00fa hlavu, do ni\u010doho nepovinn\u00e9ho sa rad\u0161ej p\u00fa\u0161\u0165a\u0165 nebudeme, \u017eiadnym podvodn\u00edkom ni\u010d nepodp\u00ed\u0161eme, ni\u010d\u00edm sa im nezad\u013a\u017eime, \u017eiadne svoje peniaze im ned\u00e1me, viac nie je v na\u0161ej kompetencii. Tak\u00e9to skupinky maj\u00fa niekedy dokonca leg\u00e1lne schv\u00e1len\u00e9 \u010dinnosti, tak pozor! Len\u017ee v tomto \u010dl\u00e1nku sa chcem venova\u0165 predov\u0161etk\u00fdm druh\u00e9mu pr\u00edpadu, ktor\u00fd m\u00e1me v ruk\u00e1ch a pod kontrolou. Strojcami vz\u0165ahov \u010dloveka k druh\u00e9mu \u010dloveku sme iba my sami a t\u00fato vec m\u00f4\u017eeme plnohodnotne ovl\u00e1da\u0165 a za v\u0161etky pozit\u00edva i negat\u00edva nesieme zodpovednos\u0165 len my. Preto je zmysluplnej\u0161ie nie\u010do si poveda\u0165 o manipul\u00e1cii jednotlivca jednotlivcom, zvl\u00e1\u0161\u0165 pokia\u013e m\u00e1me v\u00e1\u017enej\u0161\u00ed vz\u0165ah, ktor\u00e9ho osud je v na\u0161ich ruk\u00e1ch. O tak\u00fdchto hr\u00e1ch vo vz\u0165ahoch sa viac m\u00f4\u017eeme do\u010d\u00edta\u0165 pomocou mnoh\u00fdch kni\u017en\u00fdch i webov\u00fdch \u010dl\u00e1nkov, ako napr\u00edklad. Aj v tomto \u010dl\u00e1nku si na t\u00fato t\u00e9mu e\u0161te nie\u010do povieme. Jedn\u00e1 sa v\u0161ak iba o m\u00f4j osobn\u00fd poh\u013ead na t\u00fato vec. Je pravda, \u017ee v niektor\u00fdch situ\u00e1ci\u00e1ch je naozaj pre vz\u0165ah asi potrebnej\u0161ie, aby sme druh\u00e9ho tro\u0161ku zmanipulovali, ale iba v pr\u00edpade, kedy chceme pred\u00eds\u0165 \u00faplne zbyto\u010dn\u00e9mu konfliktu, ktor\u00fd nikam nevedie a kedy sa v podstate o ni\u010d v\u00e1\u017ene nejedn\u00e1. Ale v ostatn\u00fdch pr\u00edpadoch by sme mali by\u0165 predov\u0161etk\u00fdm sami sebou, \u00faprimn\u00ed, ale takisto ch\u00e1pav\u00ed a tolerant\u00ed k osobe partnera\/ke. Predsa ho m\u00e1me radi tak\u00e9ho\/tak\u00fa, ak\u00fd\/\u00e1 je. Preto by sme mali by\u0165 schopn\u00ed prekona\u0165 a pochopi\u0165 jeho\/ jej m\u00ednusi v niektor\u00fdch situ\u00e1ci\u00e1ch. Predsa nik nie je dokonal\u00fd a ani my. Ak sa m\u00e1te naozaj radi, re\u0161pektujte sa tak\u00ed, ak\u00ed ste. Bu\u010fte sami sebou, no pritom oh\u013eadupln\u00ed. Partner\/ka V\u00e1s predsa mus\u00ed pochopi\u0165, nech sa V\u00e1m stalo \u010doko\u013evek. Manipul\u00e1cii, no hlavne \u010dastej manipul\u00e1cii sa rad\u0161ej vyhnime.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        3.9\/5 - (7 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Hry s rozumom a citmi","item":"https:\/\/www.1cdc.sk\/hry-s-rozumom-a-citmi\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]